Fixing a broken heart...

I wish I know how....An old friend of mine called me out for dinner on tuesday. I have not met him for a very long time. In fact, we seldom meet up. I first met him in IRC 8 years ago and since then I only meet him less than 10 times. As usual, "wu shi bu den shang bao dian", people who called me out of the blue must have something up their sleeves, and what is under his sleeves is... his gf just broke off with him. It has been very very long since I need to comfort any body... plus I simply do not know how to with my condition. He is already crying... I guess I do not want to be crying too right? He called me a couple of time, saying he has panic attack... there is simply too many things in his room that reminded him of his gf. I tried asking him to pack it away, but I guess it need alot of strength to really move a muscle to do that. Today, I asked him out for a movie... accompany him the whole day... its more tiring than I thought it would be... having to handle his emotion outbust... I need to control myself from touching my own wound. Many time, I tired to control my tears from rolling down (scare my eyeliner runs lah, ke ke), althought the heart felt nothing.

He kept asking me how I had dealt with my break off... I simply do not know how to answer him- don't think about it?; don't look and poke at the wound?; don't speak about it?; I simply don't know. I tried to console him the common ways:
1) don't think about choose happiness (which I know its all crap, it won't work with a person who is upset)

2) hold on to the happiness you once have and don't think this is a lost (I hope he still have happy memories.. mine was totally destory by him... everytime I thought of the happy memories... I simply can't help hating it)

3) let her go, and watch over her as friend. ( Its easy said than done... if its so easy I won't be unhappy for the past 8 years of christmas. But by the end of the day, is that whhat called love?)

4) no other way... time will heal everything- human beings are forgetful creature... scared of loneiness, one day the place will be replace by another person and you will forget what has happened....

To fix a broken heart... I wish I knew... if I knew... I won't be feeling this pain.... 想做乐观的人,
每种雨声听了都不冷, 我并不是天生爱寂寞, 却比任何人都多, 就算把世界给我, 我还是一无所有
我要快乐, 我要能睡的安稳, 有些人不抱了才温暖, 离开了才不恨我早应该割舍, 我要快乐哪怕笑的再大声, 心不是热的全都是假的, 我的决定是对的... 我要快乐...